I’ve learned not to expect to be a certain way or feel something specific, not to try to force my emotions into a rigid structure or timeline. Every day is a blank page, and love dictates how I deal with loss today.
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Unexpected
This was a “where did this come from” morning. It’s ok, just breathe and focus on being thankful. This is what I tell myself when this feeling asserts itself, and I feel like the first day again.
Reflection
As time goes by, I realize that this grief is as much about learning myself and my feelings as about trying to fill or cover the hole left by my brother’s passing.