The clouds are dark and low today. It’s been one year today since my brother passed away. It’s been a long year that went by in the blink of an eye. If there’s one thing I’ve learned this year, it’s that you can’t fight the clouds. They come, sometimes dark and heavy, but they doContinue reading “One year today”
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The Gift
Things I’ve learned that helped me see grief as a precious gift: Grief is love. This was the shift for me. It sounds like an inspirational cliché, but it’s true, and when I finally allowed the truth of it to change my mind, it changed my perspective. Empathy is powerful. I’ve heard the term “miseryContinue reading “The Gift”
Oars
For me, spending time everyday facing and wrestling with the thoughts and feelings this grief creates has made a difference. It’s like adding oars to my boat, sometimes I still can’t beat the current, but they help me navigate it, and when the current isn’t flowing, I can move along at my own pace.
I Feel You 