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The more I actually engage with it, the more I am convinced that grief is the hardest part of love.


I told my wife I was anxious about my brother’s birthday, and I wanted to make it into something significant. She said, “Celebrating your brother being born is significant. “ You know what? I don’t have to try to “make something happen” because it already did.


It’s coming this way, and I’m moving towards it. April 11th has always dawned with a smile and a celebratory text and phone call to my brother on his birthday. I’m feeling anxious about it and it’s still almost a month away.